10.2.06
When do we grow up? Is there a moment in time where we all of a sudden are able to call ourselves adults? If so, when? And how? Is there really a defining moment in our lives when everything changes and we become who we are? You know, like when Michael Corleone shot that cop point blank and became the Godfather or when Anakin took that final step into the dark side to become Darth Vader?
Sure, it’s easy to say that this sort of thing only happens in movies and I shouldn’t look into it too much. Well, lets assume for one moment that it doesn’t happen in just movies. Sure, Martin Luther King Jr. didn’t just become who he is after one dream, and Michael Jordan didn’t become Michael Jordan after his first buzzer beater at North Carolina. These legends didn’t become legendary overnight, and nobody really does—including characters in movies. It seemed as though it was their fate to become the people they became. Despite all kinds of forces, which pushed them into different directions, (Michael Corleone to a leading a straight life, Anakin to the Light Side, MLK to accept his oppression, Jordan not making his high school basketball team) they overcame their plight and reached their destiny. Is everything that happens in our life prior to that moment a set up for our true destiny? Does everyone have such a pre-destined fate that is undeniable no matter what surrounds us? Or is it reserved for those special ones? The ones whose destiny is to alter the fate of the world around them? Is the world put in the hands of these precious few? Am I one? If so, who am I? Corleone, Vader, King Jr., or Jordan? I am none of them and I am all of them.
All the choices I have made are leading up to something, that moment when I become who I really am. Is that what this road trip is all about? Or is it just a set up? Either way, it’s in fate’s hands.
-Ray
Sunday, October 08, 2006
Drop everything...
...and go watch The Departed. I have several other blogs that I am writing, but I have to pause them to post this. You have to see this movie. The best movie to come out this year, hands down. Go see it now. I'll write a review later, but please go see it as soon as you read this. STOP READING THIS AND GO SEE IT.
Thursday, October 05, 2006
Finding Purpose
**This is a blog that I had started on September 19th, but never posted. Enjoy.**
As we enter our fourth week on our journey across “The Great 48,” as I like to call it, I have a few reflections on our journey.
The most enjoyable moments for me have been in the spirit of spontaneity. This trip has been, since its inception, been a crash course in what I can only describe as “planned improvisation.” We do what we want, when we want.
I enjoy the moments in between moments.
I talked to Mike the other day about finding a purpose. While we both realize that this is a trip in which we will have a good time, I find myself, like many other endeavors in my life, searching for a greater meaning. There are so many causes that need attention throughout the world, and I feel that we, with Enlightenation as our means in which to reach people, have the power to do something. What follows are some examples of things that I feel warrant attention because of the way they impacted me throughout this trip.
1. The amount of poverty in the U.S and neighboring Canada.
- Vancouver was a beautiful place with beautiful scenery and people. What struck me was the overwhelming amount of homeless roaming the street in downtown. Being from the greater Los Angeles area and spending the last year in San Francisco has really opened my eyes to the problem of poverty. I will openly admit that I need to do much more research into this, but clearly something needs to be done.
2. The closing down of the only movie house in Baker City, Oregon.
- Being a lover of film, I feel it is disappointing whenever a movie theater closes; when it is the only one in town, it is downright tragic. This is exactly what happened in Baker City. The theater, which had just recently been upgraded from one screen to three, was shut down because it did not have a sprinkler system. Deemed too expensive to replace, it has been closed.
3. The restoration of the old railroad along the Yellowstone River into Gardiner, Montana.
- Along the Yellowstone River, in which the three of us white water rafted, lie the tracks of a former railroad, which was once the only way into Yellowstone from the North. Abandoned and neglected long ago, the restoration of this railroad would be a beautiful way to experience the Yellowstone River and the views along the way.
There’s more but I don’t have the energy to finish.
As we enter our fourth week on our journey across “The Great 48,” as I like to call it, I have a few reflections on our journey.
The most enjoyable moments for me have been in the spirit of spontaneity. This trip has been, since its inception, been a crash course in what I can only describe as “planned improvisation.” We do what we want, when we want.
I enjoy the moments in between moments.
I talked to Mike the other day about finding a purpose. While we both realize that this is a trip in which we will have a good time, I find myself, like many other endeavors in my life, searching for a greater meaning. There are so many causes that need attention throughout the world, and I feel that we, with Enlightenation as our means in which to reach people, have the power to do something. What follows are some examples of things that I feel warrant attention because of the way they impacted me throughout this trip.
1. The amount of poverty in the U.S and neighboring Canada.
- Vancouver was a beautiful place with beautiful scenery and people. What struck me was the overwhelming amount of homeless roaming the street in downtown. Being from the greater Los Angeles area and spending the last year in San Francisco has really opened my eyes to the problem of poverty. I will openly admit that I need to do much more research into this, but clearly something needs to be done.
2. The closing down of the only movie house in Baker City, Oregon.
- Being a lover of film, I feel it is disappointing whenever a movie theater closes; when it is the only one in town, it is downright tragic. This is exactly what happened in Baker City. The theater, which had just recently been upgraded from one screen to three, was shut down because it did not have a sprinkler system. Deemed too expensive to replace, it has been closed.
3. The restoration of the old railroad along the Yellowstone River into Gardiner, Montana.
- Along the Yellowstone River, in which the three of us white water rafted, lie the tracks of a former railroad, which was once the only way into Yellowstone from the North. Abandoned and neglected long ago, the restoration of this railroad would be a beautiful way to experience the Yellowstone River and the views along the way.
There’s more but I don’t have the energy to finish.
Tuesday, September 05, 2006
We're in Canadia! Yes, I said CANADIA!
One the first exchanges after we cross the U.S. - Canadian border...
Mike: What smells dude?
Chris: ...Canada.
So yeah, we are officially in Canada...or as I like to call it, CANADIA! Don't ask why.
I don't know if anybody reads this damn blog, but if you do I LOVE YOU. You can make comments by the link below or in our messageboard to tell me you love me too. =)
I can't believe over a week has passed. It really seems like we've been traveling for a few weeks. We'll see where this takes us in the long haul and if that is really a good thing or a bad. We (Chris, Mike and I) put it this way: We are gonna be on this trip for about 19 weeks. We have 18 weeks to go. Only 18 weeks! Doesn't seem that long, I guess. Except when I miss you guys/gals, which is a lot. I wish I could take you all with me in the Magical School Bus!
Other than that, I am having the time of my life. So many new things to experience, new adventures, and so many laughs.
Oh yeah, I'm also about 800 bucks up from playing Blackjack!!! WOOT!
One more important fact: Mike is now known as Roly Poly.
- Ray
Mike: What smells dude?
Chris: ...Canada.
So yeah, we are officially in Canada...or as I like to call it, CANADIA! Don't ask why.
I don't know if anybody reads this damn blog, but if you do I LOVE YOU. You can make comments by the link below or in our messageboard to tell me you love me too. =)
I can't believe over a week has passed. It really seems like we've been traveling for a few weeks. We'll see where this takes us in the long haul and if that is really a good thing or a bad. We (Chris, Mike and I) put it this way: We are gonna be on this trip for about 19 weeks. We have 18 weeks to go. Only 18 weeks! Doesn't seem that long, I guess. Except when I miss you guys/gals, which is a lot. I wish I could take you all with me in the Magical School Bus!
Other than that, I am having the time of my life. So many new things to experience, new adventures, and so many laughs.
Oh yeah, I'm also about 800 bucks up from playing Blackjack!!! WOOT!
One more important fact: Mike is now known as Roly Poly.
- Ray
Sunday, September 03, 2006
A Week to Remember
Week in Review
High and lows of the past week:
- Monday:
We leave for our trip, already behind schedule. We do finally make it to Oregon, after a stop in Weed, California…to see the…umm…weeds. We also met an interesting fellow named Andrew of the Unification church. He is from the Ukraine and is traveling the world for his church. I love people who go out there and pursue things that they are passionate about, so naturally we made a donation to his church. In return, he gave us a butterfly wind-chime and a promise that he would stop calling me Korean. While stopped at a Barnes & Noble to use the internet (this looks like a recurring theme this trip: spending time in B&N, Starbucks, and McDonald’s to use the internet), we get interrogated by an officer in Medford, Oregon as if we are criminals. Seriously, this dude had issues…he approached us in his jet black SUV in a way that I can only describe as straight ridiculous. He accused us of stealing the internet (we paid for this service homey), and made us leave. We slept in another parking lot that night and I’m the only one that got decent sleep (another recurring theme, lol).
- Tuesday:
I wake up last, and realize that Mike and Chris are already in Starbucks/B&N using the ‘net. I am welcomed by the jealous remark “hey Sleeping Beauty” by Chris, which is then immediately echoed by Mike. Apparently there were some shady characters near our car all night and several cops driving by. Didn’t bother me. After a visit to Crater Lake (my feelings on that experience is my other blog entry The Oregon Trail), we decided to book a hotel in a neighboring Portland town because according to Mike and Chris: “We ain’t sleeping in no damn car anymore.” That didn’t take long to get past the whole “roughing it” thing. We eat at Cha! Cha! Cha! (We’re working on an Eats page that will detail our meals and how we felt about them, by the way) and after seeing how dead— and I mean right before a showdown in a western DEAD, Portland is in the night, we decide to call it.
- Wednesday:
On the recommendation of a couple girls in the Portland area, we go to restaurant called Silk. It had wonderful atmosphere and overall ambience in the place, screaming of high class, but oddly their menus were poorer than one’s you would find at Denny’s. They were black and white copies of one original menu and weren’t even laminated. Well, I guess they had to cut costs somewhere… Luckily, they made up for it with some great dishes, which had Chris saying, “this is DAMN good.” Thanks to the recommendations (If you are ever in the Portland area, you HAVE TO try to the Shaken Beef) of our helpful waiter, Kim the fly fisherman, we enjoyed the place. We decided we were over Portland, seemed kinda boring. One quirky thing we found out about Oregon: It is a state law that they pump gas for you. Ray and Chris: “Are we gonna tip?” Mike: “Hell no, they get paid for that shit.” On that note, we head to Washington. We literally stop on a four lane freeway and walk a couple hundred feet back along the road to take a picture in front of the Welcome to Washington sign. Better times ahead, we hope. After a visit to Arby’s we head to Saltwater State Park to set up camp. It is closed. It closes at 8:30pm. Crap. We decide to go to a rest stop we saw earlier along the freeway because according to Chris, “it has free wifi.” So apparently we will sleep in the car as long as there is free wireless internet, lol. It didn’t even work.
- Thursday:
A couple sleeping pills later, we find ourselves heading for the Pike Place Market. Talk about a good call. This place is can’t miss in Seattle (we are also working on a page with all the landmarks we’ve visited and whether or not we think it is can’t miss, so look out for that). There are quirky shops there, but really the Marketplace is where it’s at. Delicious fruit, huge seafood, extravagant flowers, and just plain great atmosphere decorate the best Farmer’s type market I have ever seen. In the same area we encounter a street performer called Vinny, who sounds exactly like Johnny Cash. He does a great performance for our cameras and we decide to call him Vinny Money. In the same area is the very first Starbucks and we visit that. We have lunch at Brasserie Margeaux, a French place in the Seattle area. After another delicious lunch, we have made two agreements. We will eat good lunches sandwiched by a light breakfast and dinner, and that we value good food over good sleep, so the rest stop it is again tonight. Before that though, we had much more on the agenda. We had gelato at the highly rated Gelatiamo (I’ve had better in San Francisco), and sign up for the Underground Tour (www.undergroundtour.com). It was, in a word: Boring as hell. Ok, that’s three words, but it is in line with they type of bad jokes they will tell during the tour. The tour guide, Heather, who worked as a seamstress as night (inside joke) was hella cool and hooked us up with a free picture and tips about the nightlife in Seattle. A few two-dollar beers later—the best part of the tour was the discount in the bar above—we headed to 24 hour fitness and worked out in the gym. An interesting thing about working out, or rather about after working out: we all normally don’t shower at the gym, because normally we can go home and do it. 48 states in 5 months is not a normal situation, so we shower and take care of our business in the gym. Thing is, were also not used to taking showers with other VERY naked men in the same area, and by naked I mean NAKED, and by same area I mean NAKED area. Something to get used to, I guess. After a few extremely insensitive jokes, aimed primarily at Mike’s boobs, we have some slices of turkey and carrot sticks in the parking lot. Back to the rest stop!
Friday:
We work out again in the morning and head out. Parking in Seattle is a bitch. Pretty much like any major city I’ve been to, parking can be a chore, especially at lunchtime. Finally we make it to lunch at the highly rated (Zagat, Citysearch), Wild Ginger, which was pretty damn good. After, we zip to the Space Needle (www.spaceneedle.com), and buy a two-tiered ticket—one visit during the day and one at night. It was beautiful, but come to the conclusion that it would be much more beautiful while under the influence. So after quite an annoying search for alcohol, which is described best in Mike's blog, we went back to the Space Needle…buzzed. For once, we were right. The needle was really beautiful at night, and especially fun when the three of us are getting hyphy in there. After some peer pressure (it really didn’t take much), Mike asked the elevator operator, “Do you know what hyphy means?” She didn’t. With that behind us, it was time to go BACK TO THE CLUB!!!! We were going to go to club Trinity, but saw that Blank & Jones were going to be at The Last Supper Club. We went there and had a good time for a while, but it was so damn packed that we left and went to some other clubs/bars. Not enough peoples, so we called it. To the rest stop Batman!
Saturday & Sunday:
A.K.A. The Laborious Weekend. This debacle deserves its own blog entry. But let me give you a little taste: we had the good idea of going to a casino. We all love to gamble.
High and lows of the past week:
- Monday:
We leave for our trip, already behind schedule. We do finally make it to Oregon, after a stop in Weed, California…to see the…umm…weeds. We also met an interesting fellow named Andrew of the Unification church. He is from the Ukraine and is traveling the world for his church. I love people who go out there and pursue things that they are passionate about, so naturally we made a donation to his church. In return, he gave us a butterfly wind-chime and a promise that he would stop calling me Korean. While stopped at a Barnes & Noble to use the internet (this looks like a recurring theme this trip: spending time in B&N, Starbucks, and McDonald’s to use the internet), we get interrogated by an officer in Medford, Oregon as if we are criminals. Seriously, this dude had issues…he approached us in his jet black SUV in a way that I can only describe as straight ridiculous. He accused us of stealing the internet (we paid for this service homey), and made us leave. We slept in another parking lot that night and I’m the only one that got decent sleep (another recurring theme, lol).
- Tuesday:
I wake up last, and realize that Mike and Chris are already in Starbucks/B&N using the ‘net. I am welcomed by the jealous remark “hey Sleeping Beauty” by Chris, which is then immediately echoed by Mike. Apparently there were some shady characters near our car all night and several cops driving by. Didn’t bother me. After a visit to Crater Lake (my feelings on that experience is my other blog entry The Oregon Trail), we decided to book a hotel in a neighboring Portland town because according to Mike and Chris: “We ain’t sleeping in no damn car anymore.” That didn’t take long to get past the whole “roughing it” thing. We eat at Cha! Cha! Cha! (We’re working on an Eats page that will detail our meals and how we felt about them, by the way) and after seeing how dead— and I mean right before a showdown in a western DEAD, Portland is in the night, we decide to call it.
- Wednesday:
On the recommendation of a couple girls in the Portland area, we go to restaurant called Silk. It had wonderful atmosphere and overall ambience in the place, screaming of high class, but oddly their menus were poorer than one’s you would find at Denny’s. They were black and white copies of one original menu and weren’t even laminated. Well, I guess they had to cut costs somewhere… Luckily, they made up for it with some great dishes, which had Chris saying, “this is DAMN good.” Thanks to the recommendations (If you are ever in the Portland area, you HAVE TO try to the Shaken Beef) of our helpful waiter, Kim the fly fisherman, we enjoyed the place. We decided we were over Portland, seemed kinda boring. One quirky thing we found out about Oregon: It is a state law that they pump gas for you. Ray and Chris: “Are we gonna tip?” Mike: “Hell no, they get paid for that shit.” On that note, we head to Washington. We literally stop on a four lane freeway and walk a couple hundred feet back along the road to take a picture in front of the Welcome to Washington sign. Better times ahead, we hope. After a visit to Arby’s we head to Saltwater State Park to set up camp. It is closed. It closes at 8:30pm. Crap. We decide to go to a rest stop we saw earlier along the freeway because according to Chris, “it has free wifi.” So apparently we will sleep in the car as long as there is free wireless internet, lol. It didn’t even work.
- Thursday:
A couple sleeping pills later, we find ourselves heading for the Pike Place Market. Talk about a good call. This place is can’t miss in Seattle (we are also working on a page with all the landmarks we’ve visited and whether or not we think it is can’t miss, so look out for that). There are quirky shops there, but really the Marketplace is where it’s at. Delicious fruit, huge seafood, extravagant flowers, and just plain great atmosphere decorate the best Farmer’s type market I have ever seen. In the same area we encounter a street performer called Vinny, who sounds exactly like Johnny Cash. He does a great performance for our cameras and we decide to call him Vinny Money. In the same area is the very first Starbucks and we visit that. We have lunch at Brasserie Margeaux, a French place in the Seattle area. After another delicious lunch, we have made two agreements. We will eat good lunches sandwiched by a light breakfast and dinner, and that we value good food over good sleep, so the rest stop it is again tonight. Before that though, we had much more on the agenda. We had gelato at the highly rated Gelatiamo (I’ve had better in San Francisco), and sign up for the Underground Tour (www.undergroundtour.com). It was, in a word: Boring as hell. Ok, that’s three words, but it is in line with they type of bad jokes they will tell during the tour. The tour guide, Heather, who worked as a seamstress as night (inside joke) was hella cool and hooked us up with a free picture and tips about the nightlife in Seattle. A few two-dollar beers later—the best part of the tour was the discount in the bar above—we headed to 24 hour fitness and worked out in the gym. An interesting thing about working out, or rather about after working out: we all normally don’t shower at the gym, because normally we can go home and do it. 48 states in 5 months is not a normal situation, so we shower and take care of our business in the gym. Thing is, were also not used to taking showers with other VERY naked men in the same area, and by naked I mean NAKED, and by same area I mean NAKED area. Something to get used to, I guess. After a few extremely insensitive jokes, aimed primarily at Mike’s boobs, we have some slices of turkey and carrot sticks in the parking lot. Back to the rest stop!
Friday:
We work out again in the morning and head out. Parking in Seattle is a bitch. Pretty much like any major city I’ve been to, parking can be a chore, especially at lunchtime. Finally we make it to lunch at the highly rated (Zagat, Citysearch), Wild Ginger, which was pretty damn good. After, we zip to the Space Needle (www.spaceneedle.com), and buy a two-tiered ticket—one visit during the day and one at night. It was beautiful, but come to the conclusion that it would be much more beautiful while under the influence. So after quite an annoying search for alcohol, which is described best in Mike's blog, we went back to the Space Needle…buzzed. For once, we were right. The needle was really beautiful at night, and especially fun when the three of us are getting hyphy in there. After some peer pressure (it really didn’t take much), Mike asked the elevator operator, “Do you know what hyphy means?” She didn’t. With that behind us, it was time to go BACK TO THE CLUB!!!! We were going to go to club Trinity, but saw that Blank & Jones were going to be at The Last Supper Club. We went there and had a good time for a while, but it was so damn packed that we left and went to some other clubs/bars. Not enough peoples, so we called it. To the rest stop Batman!
Saturday & Sunday:
A.K.A. The Laborious Weekend. This debacle deserves its own blog entry. But let me give you a little taste: we had the good idea of going to a casino. We all love to gamble.
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This was written 8/31.
We really couldn’t have gotten out of Oregon any faster. Oregon was pretty much a bore, and apparently the locals agreed. We asked around about what there was to do, and without any emotion, one guy said: “I’ve been here five years and all I do is work. I really can’t tell you what there is to do.” A perfect example of the type of person I never want to become. I mean, how can you spend five- (FIVE!) years of your life in a town and not know one place that you would want to share with others? If this sounds like your life, then you are either A) working too much or B) living in the wrong town. Get out of your own personal prisons! Do something with your life! Go on fear factor! SOMETHING! Maybe not something as crazy as going on a 48 state trip for 5 months, but see what’s out there! Maybe this place is in your own town. A funny thing about that…we often take vacations to see famous landmarks and interesting places in other towns, but rarely our own! So when somebody asks you what a cool place to see is in your hometown, you can give them your top 10.
-Ray
We really couldn’t have gotten out of Oregon any faster. Oregon was pretty much a bore, and apparently the locals agreed. We asked around about what there was to do, and without any emotion, one guy said: “I’ve been here five years and all I do is work. I really can’t tell you what there is to do.” A perfect example of the type of person I never want to become. I mean, how can you spend five- (FIVE!) years of your life in a town and not know one place that you would want to share with others? If this sounds like your life, then you are either A) working too much or B) living in the wrong town. Get out of your own personal prisons! Do something with your life! Go on fear factor! SOMETHING! Maybe not something as crazy as going on a 48 state trip for 5 months, but see what’s out there! Maybe this place is in your own town. A funny thing about that…we often take vacations to see famous landmarks and interesting places in other towns, but rarely our own! So when somebody asks you what a cool place to see is in your hometown, you can give them your top 10.
-Ray
Wednesday, August 30, 2006
The Oregon Trail
If you didn’t love Oregon Trail when you were in grade school then you either never had the chance to play it or sniffed too much glue. For those who understand what sort of special place that game holds in my heart –it was the sole reason I went to school on certain days-- I can’t tell you how excited I am that I am actually on an expedition sort of like the Oregon Trail! Sure, we probably won’t catch malaria or die of heat exhaustion, but I beg anyone to argue that enduring farts from my two fellow travelers in a stuffy car, no less, isn’t at least on the same level-- if not much worse. Really though, things have been good so far – definitely a lot of beautiful scenery in Oregon.
We visited Crater Lake today, on the recommendation of some people at Starbucks in Medford. We asked them if there was a “can’t miss” place in Oregon and they told us there, so unwittingly we went. Crater Lake is best described as an extremely beautiful girl with no substance. You know, that girl that is just breathtakingly gorgeous that you just look at and say (to quote Lil’ Jon): “YEAH!” But when you finally get to talk to her, you realize that she is boring as hell and stupider than a pile of rocks. Well, that how I would describe Crater Lake: extremely beautiful, but not really fun. I think we all decided it was “can miss” (I hope no native Oregonians are offended).
One redeeming thing about the visit to Crater Lake had nothing really to do with the place, but what we did there: we exercised. Prior to the trip we actually talked about staying in shape as much as possible and that we thought it would be interesting to just stop somewhere beautiful and run there. I had doubts about this idea coming into fruition, but we actually ran for a good amount of time, at Crater Lake National Park. We definitely have a long way to go on our trip – both in distance and in physical condition, but it looks like we are on the right Trail.
We visited Crater Lake today, on the recommendation of some people at Starbucks in Medford. We asked them if there was a “can’t miss” place in Oregon and they told us there, so unwittingly we went. Crater Lake is best described as an extremely beautiful girl with no substance. You know, that girl that is just breathtakingly gorgeous that you just look at and say (to quote Lil’ Jon): “YEAH!” But when you finally get to talk to her, you realize that she is boring as hell and stupider than a pile of rocks. Well, that how I would describe Crater Lake: extremely beautiful, but not really fun. I think we all decided it was “can miss” (I hope no native Oregonians are offended).
One redeeming thing about the visit to Crater Lake had nothing really to do with the place, but what we did there: we exercised. Prior to the trip we actually talked about staying in shape as much as possible and that we thought it would be interesting to just stop somewhere beautiful and run there. I had doubts about this idea coming into fruition, but we actually ran for a good amount of time, at Crater Lake National Park. We definitely have a long way to go on our trip – both in distance and in physical condition, but it looks like we are on the right Trail.
Tuesday, August 29, 2006
On Friendship
I’m sorry Epictetus, but I suppose we’ll have to agree to disagree. On the topic of friendship I’d have to say I agree with Aristotle. See, I was looking through some old papers on my hard drive and I stumble across an assignment I did in a philosophy class a while back.
It said that Epictetus held the notion that close attachments, namely friendships, were a danger and that we shouldn’t have them. He felt that inevitably, no matter how loving a relationship may be, it eventually ends. Therefore, investing so much time and effort into building these relationships, which are temporary and ultimately out of one’s control, is foolish. Aristotle, on the other hand, felt that these relationships were vital to having a fulfilling life. He argued that reaching this level of friendship with others brings one closer to attaining happiness and to living the good life.
There is no doubt that sometimes I side with Epictetus, especially when I get am let down by a close friend, or at least somebody I thought was close. In the end though, I would have to say I agree with Aristotle. One thing I pride myself in is the friendships I have made throughout the years. The outpouring of support that my friends have shown me in the days leading up to this trip has been amazing and it affirmed my belief that Aristotle is right. So this serves as a good place and time to say a BIG THANK YOU to all those who have given their loving support, words of wisdom, money/gifts, and their prayers.
As the trip begins I have had to leave some of my closest friends behind, luckily I have two of my best friends with me – Chris and Mike. Aristotle would be so proud.
It said that Epictetus held the notion that close attachments, namely friendships, were a danger and that we shouldn’t have them. He felt that inevitably, no matter how loving a relationship may be, it eventually ends. Therefore, investing so much time and effort into building these relationships, which are temporary and ultimately out of one’s control, is foolish. Aristotle, on the other hand, felt that these relationships were vital to having a fulfilling life. He argued that reaching this level of friendship with others brings one closer to attaining happiness and to living the good life.
There is no doubt that sometimes I side with Epictetus, especially when I get am let down by a close friend, or at least somebody I thought was close. In the end though, I would have to say I agree with Aristotle. One thing I pride myself in is the friendships I have made throughout the years. The outpouring of support that my friends have shown me in the days leading up to this trip has been amazing and it affirmed my belief that Aristotle is right. So this serves as a good place and time to say a BIG THANK YOU to all those who have given their loving support, words of wisdom, money/gifts, and their prayers.
As the trip begins I have had to leave some of my closest friends behind, luckily I have two of my best friends with me – Chris and Mike. Aristotle would be so proud.
Friday, August 25, 2006
I am no longer a virgin
...to the world of blogging. So here it is, the first entry of many more to come. It wasn't as great as I thought it would be. ;)
-Ray
-Ray
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